Have you ever stopped and thought about the number of times we compare ourselves to other people due to lack of self-confidence? In general, we tend to think that our success lies in what we lack. Like that skill that we don't have, that characteristic that we don't have and we desire so much, things that we cannot acquire that others have ... nothing could be further from reality!
We believe we would be happier if we were different from how we are. We are content to tell ourselves internally: “well, this is what I got”, we even hold God responsible for it, saying, “God wanted it that way!” And don’t get me started with the excuses that people use: “I was not born rich”, “I lost my parents'', “I lost my mother”, “I had to work so I didn’t finish school”... Worst of all, is that we do not realize the damage we are doing to ourselves, becoming incredibly CONFORMIST beings. Yes, some people have had luck in their lives and/or circumstances that made their success easier but don't get fooled thinking that that made it easy to CONTINUE being successful.
The Loop and Vicious Cycle
The problem comes when we let THOSE THOUGHTS control our lives and they lead us to enter a loop of "non-acceptance". We don’t appreciate ourselves enough that we do not feel confident even, to celebrate our own achievements; or rather, we are so blind that we don’t see them. When it comes to self-sabotage, there are two main culprits: our own negative thoughts and our own negative actions. We think things like "I'm not good enough" or "I'll never be able to do it" or "I don't deserve it". We act like a jerk because we're so scared of failure. We procrastinate because we'd rather be doing anything else than getting started. In short, we believe negative lies and then in turn, act in ways that allow those lies become true.
Breaking the Pattern
If you need to improve your self-confidence, you need to work on your inner strength. This discipline is based on the recognition technique, which will help you silence any negative dialogue that you may have internally, focusing on everything you have already achieved, recognizing your achievements no matter how small they are. This will help you fill yourself with the courage to take that step to success that you have put off for so long because of self-sabotage.
All businesses start from scratch and your business is no exception, as humans we all have the ability to achieve success in any area we want, if others have been able to, why not you?
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